SIGN: Aries GOALS: I’d like to find some way to use the talents that I have to my best advantage. TURN-ONS: Sex in unusual places, massages, boy watching.
TURNOFFS: Men who try to buy women with expensive gifts.
I love his "tough love" - because sometimes it's hard to see how much power we actually have, and because so many "gurus" are afraid to say the truth about men and relationships.
Another trick is to pretend it's a job you're trying to get, not a date, since women tend to find it easier to really sell themselves in a work setting.
Mistake #2: You Come Off as a Clone Everyone knows you are "nice, smart, fun, and sweet," but there are thousands of other single girls online saying the same damn thing about themselves. The snag-him secret: The best profiles tell an original story.
FAVORITE ACTRESSES: Julie Christie, Raquel Welch, Angie Dickinson, Kate Jackson.
FAVORITE PERFORMERS: Linda Ronstadt, Diana Ross, Stevie Wonder, Neil Diamond, Ohio Players.