Of course there is an advantage to it because if a person really likes you then they will make the effort and then you will that they really like you.
After all we live in an incredibly fast-paced world and that pace does not simply occur in our professional lives.
As an adult, everyone that didn’t know me thought I was a jerk because I didn’t go out of my way to make friends. If you are a shy guy, you know how hard it is dating, let alone even finding a woman to date.
When I was little, everyone thought I was cute because I was shy.
Over the years several women have written me to tell me reading this site has helped them understand the actions of a shy guy they were pursuing.
With that in mind I thought I'd try to be even more helpful and write a whole article outlining what it's like to be a man who's really shy and inexperienced with women.
Your head can get clouded with questions like what should I wear? In order to strike a meaningful conversation, you must listen carefully to what she says. Shy people are normally good listeners but some of them can be so caught in their anxiety or self-consciousness and can be distracted from hearing the other person. Now when we say that you have to be a good listener, nowhere do we imply that you should remain mum and let her be the “motormouth”. Also, women have a tendency of continuing to speak for long stretches of time. At the end I give a few thoughts on what to do if there's a shy guy in your life you're interested in.Combined, the points below will describe a guy who's really, really inhibited and awkward around women.Not all shy men will have issues that intense or have every characteristic apply to them.I'll list some quick suggestions at the end, but for the most part I'll describe the issues shy guys deal with and let you draw your own conclusions about how to act.